OK well Here it goes..
There is a ginormous amount of words that alot of us use.. I cant list all of them here, for there are too many.. but here are some that Ive seen around the site,
Occuli-eyes
Maw/velveteen/Muz-Muzzle
Auds/Audits-Ears
Dentals/Ivories/Pearls-Teeth
Banner/Plume/Tassel/fluffed wagger-tail
Crania/cranium/skull- head
Fae/femore/femme/vixen-female
Im not so good at using the fancy latin language some rpers use.. Although if there are others, heres a link that may be able to help you out.
http://s7.invisionfree.com/Raakanor/index....=178&st=0lastA person (he used to rp here) Compiled the list of words.. If it helps you out, by all means read it!
On to the other thing.. How to adress the alpha. I'd say only call him/her their real names after they give them to you. So up until that point you merely can call them, M'lord, or M'lady.
When they give you there name then you can refer to them as M'lord *put name here* or M'lady *put name here*
All in all, respect is better to have then not. So if you're not sure, your better of referring to them as M'lord or M'lady, just in case your wolf gets in trouble! (lol, no problem in skah.. they're so accepting!)
~amanda
PS: Hope it helps!