OK so i posted something about this in the post about nothing but i really need advice on it.

Ok so I told the guy I like that I like him. The next day he comes out of his 3rd period which is right across from mine and looks dead at me in my class. Then he sees me at lunch and before 7th but doesnt say anything to me just looks dead at me. And then he kept lookin at me at lunch last friday but wouldnt say hey or anything. Just my luck. Ok so yesterday we had to go to advisor b/c of PSAT testing. Well we were only in their for 25 minutes or so b/c the juniors had a class meeting. Welll low and behold my crush was in my advisor class today b/c his advisor was giving the psat. I didnt talk to him b/c he was talkin to another football player & I am really regreting it. And I have liked him going on a year now. Its bad i know. I think I am going to give up on him. and i told a friend that and she text me back saying how many times have you said that before. Its like i give up and then the feelings come back and I dont know what to do about it so help me please.

Should I just give up on him or not??

Seems to me like you have two options...

1.) Confront him and ask him why he's not talking to you.

or

2.) I would start totally ignoring him. He knows you like him and I'm sure he's thinking that you're just going to sit eating your heart out about it until he responds. I wouldn't give him the chance. I would immediately start acting like you think he's a loser. Its about the only chance you have at this point because he's in the driver's seat. At the very least, he's going to be curious about why you once liked him and now think he's crap.

OK thanks.

Were you guys friends before you told him?

we werent really friends but like he knew who i was before i told him and we had hung out after games for alittle while last season

I think guys are entirely not worth it and you shouldn't waste your time. :)

Yeah. But the thing is i cant stop thinking about him sometimes and it scares me how much i like him.

You might be reading too much into him not talking to you. If you weren't close friends you probably didn't talk that much before but you are just noticing it now because you are so into him right now.

Give it a little time before you get too worried. It might just be taking him awhile to process his feelings. If he really didn't like you, he would just tell you. So the fact that he isn't saying anything, to me, says that he is just trying to figure out what to do next.

Yeah thats what I am thinking b/c if he didnt like me I would have known by now wouldnt I?

Well I do not want to get your hopes up too much because you never know what is really going through a man's head. If it was me, though, I'd give it some time before I got bummed and thought he didn't like me.

kk thanks

anyone else have any advice on what to do

I'm gonna both-

A-Agree with Haley. Ignore him. He already knows that you like him. No reason to boost his ego anymore and make him think he's the center of your universe. You have other things going on in life. Concentrate on them, and maybe he'll come to you.

and...

B-Agree with Helena. Guys aren't worth it.

alright thanks

Definitely pretend like you could care less about him. It sounds totally dumb, but you've given him the power and while it seems like it was the right thing to do and when you get older, it's what you're going to want to do, you're in high school and boys are, well, boys. They're jack asses.

Be aloof. Have fun with your friends. Flirt with other guys/ hang out with other guys after games. MAKE HIM WONDER WHAT'S GOING ON IN YOUR HEAD! Even of he doesn't like you, it'll still get to him and in the end, it gives you the upper hand because you made him squirm.

alright thanks so much