Title: Seriously consider this.
smokeyslost - January 28, 2006 01:44 PM (GMT)
adding a older persons forum (hidden from the public) I just shat myself when I saw in the pictures of yourself thread a 11 yr old. I could be the kid's father. I'd just hate to be the one who steers the youngins in the wrong direction. :lmbo i'm laughin but i'm dead serious too.
shortchit - January 28, 2006 04:21 PM (GMT)
RaizingKahne - January 28, 2006 07:19 PM (GMT)
Let me say this. As many know I do not agree with a lot of things with the forum. This is suppose to be a family forum and we have fan fics talking about cheating and sex and I know when I was a Admin I added the warning to the fan fic forum so thats helps to a point. We have banners about riding rookies, buring rubbers (and I don't mean tires) and a lot of harsh language, all at free will. There really needs to be a adult forum if thats what this forum wants to do.
This forum has went downhill as far as Family goes. There are young people in this forum and some things they just don't need to hear, read, or look. And some of the sex related banners need to be done away with.
JMO
smokeyslost - January 28, 2006 07:29 PM (GMT)
i'm all for the downing of risque sex banners to man. i haven't really seen any that would cross the line but that doesn't mean they are not out there. But I believe this is a credit to the forum that there are adults and we do like to carry on with each other. this forum has become for some as the one forum they choose to post on so we need to accommodate those people and let them have their free will.
shortchit - January 28, 2006 08:27 PM (GMT)
yea i think we need an 18+ forum. for more reasons than one. i dont want to start shit so i will leave it at that.
AmeriKahneGirl924 - January 29, 2006 01:03 AM (GMT)
I agree, in a way. But, let me add, that if you get too strict, it gets a little.....mundane. I speak from experience here.
But an 18+ forum could be an idea.
Krissy - January 29, 2006 01:45 AM (GMT)
You guys do that then and have fun. :lmbo
JanvierFireChick43-2 - January 29, 2006 01:49 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Krissy @ Jan 28 2006, 08:45 PM) |
| You guys do that then and have fun. :lmbo |
:hehe
smokeyslost - January 29, 2006 02:02 AM (GMT)
another thought came to me.. in no way am I trying to be an elitist and one could pose the arguement that it would take away from the participation in the other forums. i don't believe that it would be the case. I just think it would be nice to have a place to go to and not worry about contributing to the detriment of a young mind as well as get some kid in trouble because he/she left his computer screen on for mom and dad to view. not to say we wouldn't carry ourselves in a respectable manner; i'm just looking out for the kids.
MidnightAngel - January 29, 2006 06:43 AM (GMT)
An adults only section might be a good idea. Only saying this because I don't want to be accused of corrupting a minor. I belonged to a graphics forum and had angry parents email me to stop preying on kids. I hadn't realized the majority of the forum was 9-15.
Mrs. Kluever - January 29, 2006 06:58 AM (GMT)
an 18+ part of the board would be a good idea i think..
imakkfan - January 29, 2006 07:33 AM (GMT)
idk im 13 and i here much worse things every day at shcool!
MidnightPrism - January 29, 2006 08:13 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (imakkfan @ Jan 29 2006, 01:33 AM) |
| idk im 13 and i here much worse things every day at shcool! |
We can't help it if the rest of the world is vile & corrupt B) but they can help keep things under control here. :usa2
RaizingKahne - January 29, 2006 02:30 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Jersey @ Jan 28 2006, 08:49 PM) |
| QUOTE (Krissy @ Jan 28 2006, 08:45 PM) | | You guys do that then and have fun. :lmbo |
:hehe
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Im sorry you guys don't see it, but its a thought, then again perhaps we need to add more bad things. What do I know :unsure:
shortchit - January 29, 2006 03:16 PM (GMT)
hmm the reason i want an adult forum just popped up on this thread. what a shocker. it would be AWESOME to have an ADULT convo without krissy or kelly chiming in with their nonsense.
racefan9 - January 29, 2006 04:53 PM (GMT)
I don't really think this idea would work. There are some people here who are 18+ that still act like children.
shortchit - January 29, 2006 05:09 PM (GMT)
that is so true, i am probably one of those people, but if us immature adults read something or see something that is not so pg13, our parents cant walk in and bust us. that and usually us immature adults dont go on and on about how much they fart, poop, burp or love rascal flatts.
i think i want the forum for more personal, selfish reasons than smokey. he has the right idea...i just added to it. and i think it would work great.
smokeyslost - January 29, 2006 05:22 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (racefan9 @ Jan 29 2006, 10:53 AM) |
| I don't really think this idea would work. There are some people here who are 18+ that still act like children. |
well at least it can be done in our own private forum.
wsucougarchick05 - January 29, 2006 09:45 PM (GMT)
The idea is a great one. Really.
There are times when I'd like to go in and get another adults advice without having a someone pipe in with something ridiculously stupid (i.e. Krissy and Kelly). And so that's why I rarely post stuff like that on the board...I use my Xanga and do it as a protected post, because then I know the people that'll read it are mature and can actually answer the question. Not give me some bullshit : : giggles : : or stuff like that.
smokeyslost - January 29, 2006 10:36 PM (GMT)
i'm 100% percent behind you on needing adult advice.. but let's refrain from throwing people under the bus.
wsucougarchick05 - January 29, 2006 11:01 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (smokeyslost @ Jan 29 2006, 02:36 PM) |
| i'm 100% percent behind you on needing adult advice.. but let's refrain from throwing people under the bus. |
It was one of those frustrating, confusing weeks both personally and professionally for me. I'll try not to throw any more people under a bus. Or a Freightliner.
shortchit - January 29, 2006 11:04 PM (GMT)
how about a cruise ship? can i do that?
AmeriKahneGirl924 - January 30, 2006 12:52 AM (GMT)
Alina, I agree. Those are reasons I would enjoy an 18+ forum as well.
The rest of the forum should stay as is though. I think if the rules are too strict, it will take away from the board.
JMO.
Scrapbookgirl9 - January 30, 2006 01:00 AM (GMT)
I'm for and against......
cause as an admin, there is a lot of crap that I have to deal with and this forum would be another, that I'd have to hear some people bitch about cause they aren't allowed in it and such.
If an adult forum was to be added........it would have to just be for general life stuff, I don't want it to be "talking about others and talking about racing stuff that could be talked about on the regular board"
It's something I'd def like to think about and have suggestions put out there about....
I don't mind having one, if it can be handled properly and not be meant to upset others.
shortchit - January 30, 2006 01:11 AM (GMT)
well make an 18+ forum for us and a 18- forum for them
Lauren - January 30, 2006 02:39 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (shortchit @ Jan 29 2006, 10:16 AM) |
| hmm the reason i want an adult forum just popped up on this thread. what a shocker. it would be AWESOME to have an ADULT convo without krissy or kelly chiming in with their nonsense. |
ouch. harsh.
shortchit - January 30, 2006 02:55 AM (GMT)
yeah and im the only one that said something along those lines, but hey thanks for commenting.
smokeyslost - January 30, 2006 04:48 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Scrapbookgirl9 @ Jan 29 2006, 07:00 PM) |
I'm for and against......
cause as an admin, there is a lot of crap that I have to deal with and this forum would be another, that I'd have to hear some people bitch about cause they aren't allowed in it and such.
If an adult forum was to be added........it would have to just be for general life stuff, I don't want it to be "talking about others and talking about racing stuff that could be talked about on the regular board"
It's something I'd def like to think about and have suggestions put out there about....
I don't mind having one, if it can be handled properly and not be meant to upset others. |
you're on point with it.. life stuff.
smokeyslost - January 30, 2006 04:52 AM (GMT)
oh but please keep your feminine hygiene issues between you and your non-internet friends..
AmeriKahneGirl924 - January 30, 2006 12:01 PM (GMT)
Haha, we could do that....just for you. :)
RaizingKahne - January 30, 2006 04:16 PM (GMT)
lets keep the forum with all the sexual banners, harsh language, and talking about screwing all the drivers.... Who cares, right? :rolleyes:
But hey thats JMO, no big deal. Sure Im steping on toes, and Im sorry but I also have the right to express my thoughts even if they could be wrong. A lot of people are scared to speak there mind. I don't give a darn about a adult forum, I just think that we can do away with some sexual banners, harsh language and some talk about do me baby. But oh well, like I said....who cares? Not likes its my forum, I guess if I don't like it I could leave, but that would not solve nothing would it?
I guess what is really ticking me off is that when I made the Raizing Kahne Forum, I built the forum to be a fan, and family friendly forum. I knew that there would be a lot of young girls that would want to support him cause of his looks and driving skills. I knew there would be some from 13 years old on up. After the merge the forum went well, and I left the Admin spot to do KahnesKorner.com. After that the forum has went away from my hopes.
Now let me say this...I think Christy has done a hell of a great job with this forum and there could be no better person yo run it, but when you have a big forum like this, plus a life, plus the scrapbook, plus a job, its hard to meet all the needs. Thats why I belive that one Admin can not do this all by there self. And even with the Mods of the forum it can't help if the mods will not step on a few toes and stick with the rules.
There is nothing wrong with the forum IMO execpt some of the rules are being treated like crap, and like I said, Christy can not do everything by herself with the time she has to spend elsewhere.
This forum needs someone else to help her and a few mods that will step on feet and stick with the rules and goals of the forum. I think most Mods here are great and do a good job, but a lot is letting the rules slip. I have asked to be added as a Admin or Mod once again like I use to be before I left to do the website. Not to do it so I can be a butthole, thats not what I want. I want it to help Christy, but the image of this forum is looking a lot diffrent and we have lost great members of this forum because of it.
I think that people can express there feelings, and have fun. Thats what the forum is about, I know. But just like America, its a free country, but you have rules to keep you safe.
smokeyslost - January 30, 2006 04:32 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (RaizingKahne @ Jan 30 2006, 10:16 AM) |
lets keep the forum with all the sexual banners, harsh language, and talking about screwing all the drivers.... Who cares, right? :rolleyes:
But hey thats JMO, no big deal. Sure Im steping on toes, and Im sorry but I also have the right to express my thoughts even if they could be wrong. A lot of people are scared to speak there mind. I don't give a darn about a adult forum, I just think that we can do away with some sexual banners, harsh language and some talk about do me baby. But oh well, like I said....who cares? Not likes its my forum, I guess if I don't like it I could leave, but that would not solve nothing would it? |
would you be talking about the fan fiction? i've been searching for sex banners come up empty..got some examples?
MyKindOfMusic - January 30, 2006 04:32 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (smokeyslost @ Jan 29 2006, 11:48 PM) |
| QUOTE (Scrapbookgirl9 @ Jan 29 2006, 07:00 PM) | I'm for and against......
cause as an admin, there is a lot of crap that I have to deal with and this forum would be another, that I'd have to hear some people bitch about cause they aren't allowed in it and such.
If an adult forum was to be added........it would have to just be for general life stuff, I don't want it to be "talking about others and talking about racing stuff that could be talked about on the regular board"
It's something I'd def like to think about and have suggestions put out there about....
I don't mind having one, if it can be handled properly and not be meant to upset others. |
you're on point with it.. life stuff.
|
I'm all for something like that.
RaizingKahne - January 30, 2006 04:37 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (smokeyslost @ Jan 30 2006, 11:32 AM) |
| QUOTE (RaizingKahne @ Jan 30 2006, 10:16 AM) | lets keep the forum with all the sexual banners, harsh language, and talking about screwing all the drivers.... Who cares, right? :rolleyes:
But hey thats JMO, no big deal. Sure Im steping on toes, and Im sorry but I also have the right to express my thoughts even if they could be wrong. A lot of people are scared to speak there mind. I don't give a darn about a adult forum, I just think that we can do away with some sexual banners, harsh language and some talk about do me baby. But oh well, like I said....who cares? Not likes its my forum, I guess if I don't like it I could leave, but that would not solve nothing would it? |
would you be talking about the fan fiction? i've been searching for sex banners come up empty..got some examples?
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Most have been done away with, but I will look, and if I find some I will PM them to you cause I feel like I do not need to put the spotlight on a member.
wsucougarchick05 - January 30, 2006 06:34 PM (GMT)
Dave,
I can't speak for all the mods, but I know that I can't be here at all times patrolling every little nook and cranny of the forum.
Do things slip by us mods? Of course. But you have to think...what's considered "bad" to you may not be considered "bad" to me. That's the tough part about interpretation. Everybody interprets things differently.
And like Erica said earlier...if we get into a police state, no one is going to want to come here.
I have to be a b*tch at work sometimes. I don't want to have to come here and treat people like I do my kids at work when I have to be a b*tch. But if ya'll want me to...fine. But keep in mind that when I come to the board, I don't want to be in "work" mode.
smokeyslost - January 30, 2006 06:44 PM (GMT)
Dave and I have talked things are cool. homeboy brought the evidence to the table though. some that i have done well to just mentally block out.
Same - January 30, 2006 07:25 PM (GMT)
I'd agree for the 18+ thing for a random section for just life.
but the racing area should be mixed. just what im thinking.
racefan9 - January 30, 2006 07:36 PM (GMT)
I have mixed feelings about this.
shortchit - January 30, 2006 08:29 PM (GMT)
care to elaborate on that vauge statement?
Krissy - January 30, 2006 09:37 PM (GMT)
Well that's just a nice thread to read. I'm outta here.