The absolute minimum (money wise) thing I would suggest is something like this combo deal. $259.99
Trainer Plane/Engine/Radio ComboThis type/size plane is ideal for learning.
If you can spend more money:
Upgrade engine to OS brand. (better power, easier adjusting, and more reliable)
Upgrade Radio to Futaba brand, six channel or more. (more features/adjustments for more advanced planes you may work up to. Also better resale value if you decide to get rid of it)
You can learn on your own (has been done), but probably at least 80% chance of failure.
I cannot stress enough to get with your local RC group for help and advice. They will love the opportunity to help a new flyer.
Good Luck and we are always here at MARCMAF to help as best we can without any hands on ability. :)