My grandmother-in-law (who's lived with us) passed away 7 months ago and now we found out that my mother-in-law may have cancer (she's been real sick this past few days). They admitted her to the hospital right now, that's in another town. We don't know for sure if she has it or not.

Then, my freaking aunt-in-law is going to come up in our house and start verbally attacking me. Telling me that I was lazy and stuck-up. When all she does when she comes over our house is sit on her behind and chain-smoke all day, and then get mad because we won't let her smoke in our house. My mother-in-law and her other son have been living with us because they haven't had income (long story), so it's the reason why she comes over. But that witch isn't going to keep coming up in our house and tell us what to do. I'm not stuck up, I refuse to talk to her because she's hated me since day one since one of her acquaintances wanted to date my husband. Second, I'm not lazy, when it was just me and my husband, our house stayed spotless. But with now 5 people living there (i'm not complaining), it's hard to keep it clean, especially since some of them are messy. I can't stand this woman. She even refused to carry my mother-in-law to the hospital because 30 miles is too far away for her. She just doesn't want to stay with her own sister overnight, because of her smoking addiction. Then, at my own wedding, she asks right in front of my father if I was on birth control. I can't stand this woman, she does nothing but fill me up with anger. I know she wasn't suppose to be the point of this post, but I'm really angry right now.

There's other stuff happening right now that I don't get into because I don't want to take away that my mother-in-law is sick. But please, keep us in your prayers.

definitely time. sorry to hear that dear.

Time I am so sorry. I will pray for your mother-in-law and you and the rest of your family. God Bless all of you and God help your Aunt-in-law she needs it.

I will keep your mother-in-law in my prayers Time, as well as you & your husband.

timeless you're def in my thoughts and prayers.

you're the opposite of what she says ab you, clearly shown by you allowing them to stay in your house, always remember that. don't let her hatefulness steal your joy.

vent away if you need to some more.

you're in my prayers.

there isn't much to say that hasn't already been said.

I so sorry. Your family will be in my prayers.

Thanks everyone, your kind words and prayers really helped out.

We still won't know for a few days but they think it was a bad case of pneumonia but cancer is still a possibility. My mother-in-law doesn't smoke, but she's around it all the time (her daughter and her sister (my famous aunt-in-law)). She asked them not to smoke around her anymore and my aunt gives her the selfish reaction "well, I guess I shouldn't come visit anymore". That woman makes me sick. Not that I would care if she didn't come back to our house, but that's her blood she's talking to like that.

I guess I've been down in the dumps lately. Me and my husband have been snapping at each other because of all the changes that have happened since this year (stress is getting to us), even though we've been better lately. And his grandmother was the stability of the family (and her church), and ever since she's passed, some of the family isn't trying to keep peace anymore. And some family members that we thought we could rely on, actually turned their backs on us. Even the church we attend, the members don't act the same toward us anymore and that's the place I'm suppose to find peace. There's also all the drama I had at where I use to work, and it ended with a good friend there not speaking to me anymore (because I quit) :( This person won't even look at me anymore or will pretend I'm not there whenever I see them. But I'm still thankful with what I do have left, even if it's hard to see that right now.

timeless, as hard as it is to say, those ppl who turned their backs were probably never even your real friends in the first place.

all this turmoil only means that you're going to come out on the other end with relationships and experiences so great that you can't even imagine them.

believe it, happened to me.

I got good news! Her test results came in and they found out that she has no cancer!

But some of my in-laws are still being edgy and worse than usual and now my own family doesn't want to come visit me, when the in-laws around because they don't like to be around some of them. I hope they come around, because I do still need them.

I also found out that the stuff about me and my former friend, was a misunderstanding due to instigating, but I don't know how things will go now. I realize that part of it was my fault because I believed what I heard and didn't speak up sooner. But I'm glad to find out part of the reason why.

But I am glad that we got good news in the midst of all of this, things will be better one day, thanks again for the prayers :D

WONDERFUL NEWS!

you're right, things will continue to get better.